After all, once the harsh words are spoken, they are irreversible. What is the best way to forgive and forget what was said? This is the problem that one lady is having in her marriage. She cannot forget what her husband said about her even though he has done nothing to deserve this from her.
There are many ways to go about forgiving and forgetting something that was said. You should try to remember as much information about why you are angry with the person so that you do not act on revenge. Then, you should look at your relationship with them and decide how you can fix it so that this will never happen again. Finally, you should ask for forgiveness for any wrongs that were done against them.
Forgiving someone means that you have accepted their apology. If they did not apologize then you cannot forgive them. Forging a new relationship with someone you have forgiven could be difficult if they did not show any remorse for their actions. However, most people do want to be forgiven and will often say they are sorry to get rid of their anger towards another person.
Forgetting something that was said is possible if you remove it from your mind. The more you think about it, the more anger and resentment it will cause you. Then, eventually, you will stop thinking about it which will help you to forget about it.
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Yes, it is easier said than done, but you won't know unless you try. Here are a few inspiring quotes and thoughts to help you understand how to forgive, let go, and go on.
Forgiveness is the key to many doors, for it opens those doors which otherwise would remain closed forever. - Bruce Lee
Forgiveness is an act of love. If you want to be loved back, show you care by forgiving others. - Melody Beattie
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good people to do nothing. - Edmund Burke
If you find that your anger has destroyed your life, then start living again. Change your attitude toward your problems and there will be a change in your life. Let go of what has happened in the past and move on with your life.
We cannot remember everything, but we can keep forgiveness in our hearts and lives. It's not always easy, but it is possible to let go and live life more fully.
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